•The Persistence Principle: One And Done Is Never Enough As Listeners, we hear about every terrible act of which mankind is capable, and this can take its' toll on us, but it is important to remember your Venters, to treat them as people, this means following up.We must always give our Venters the space they need to open up willingly to us, but we must not become lax.Some Venters' issue IS that they have no faith or positive regard for themselves!Show the Venter unconditional positive regard, and you will not only make their life that much easier, you will become a better Listener.
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As Listeners, it is on us to believe in the ability of the Venter to make themselves better, to take them at their word, give them the benefit of the doubt, and to show them that it is entirely possible for someone to believe in them. It is impossible to shame or degrade a person into improving.
Negative regard does nothing more than communicate negativity, and the Venter likely already feels badly enough about themselves.
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