The thought of how to “get him to chase you” or “be a challenge” would never even cross your mind because you simply enjoy each other so much. As the relationship continues, he includes you in his world.
He tells you about what he’s doing and your relationship has a feeling of partnership to it.
The lesson is simple: Now I can imagine when you read that, it might bring up a few objections.
For one, you might think that sounds selfish or unloving.
When a guy loves you (or is on his way to falling in love with you) the relationship starts with a lot of enthusiasm on his part. He’s excited to be around you, to share things with you, and to bring you into his world.
It’s just a fact of human nature and the sooner you can embrace it, the better off you’ll be in your relationship future.
However, this lesson has often led women to believe they need to somehow make a man work for them or chase them…
To be perfectly frank, this is probably the entire reason why the book “He’s Just Not That Into You” was a popular book on dating/relationships…
it basically said, “Stop reading into his words and actions like a secret code.
I’ve seen women waste years trying to change a broken relationship into a good relationship… And all the meanwhile, they were becoming more helpless and more hopeless.