Going after what you want involves confidence, direction and passion. Direct men won’t waste her time A direct man will be upfront and honest if they are not feeling a connection after the first few dates, and they also have no problem being direct about how into a woman they are if they do feel a connection!
Ambiguous men, however, often avoid being honest and have no problem wasting a woman’s time if it means they can side-step an uncomfortable conversation.
There are many reasons why women are attracted to direct men. Women aren’t interested in putting up with the guessing games that ambiguous and passive types often subject them to.
If she’s dating someone who makes her feel unsure of where she stands, she’ll feel compelled to look for someone else. Because women don’t want to date anyone who makes them feel uncertain, and a real man is direct.
Have you ever wondered what will drive a woman to choose you over her other options?
If you’re direct and confident while others remain passive, there will be no contest – you’ll already be the clear winner in her eyes.
Sasha Daygame, direct dating coach, creator of The Direct Dating Summit and author of “The Direct Daygame Bible: How to Meet and Attract Beautiful Women in Everyday Situations” explains that being the ‘mysterious type’ results in nothing but awkward complications.
Sasha states: “The mystery method was popularized by the book and encourages inauthenticy and awkward interactions” compared to his direct dating method which “encourages honesty, authenticity, and expressing yourself assertively.” 2.
When a man is really present when they’re with a woman, is open about his feelings for her and is showing genuine interest – that makes dating enjoyable. The key is to only date people who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.
The sexiest men are the ones who make their intentions David Klow, a Chicago based Psychotherapist and owner of Skylight Counseling Center explained this concept to me in a way that made me smile and nod my head in agreement: “Women like direct men the same way a salsa dancer likes a good lead.
When there is clarity and direction, she feels relaxed.
Direct men, or the alpha male type, are the type women are often the most attracted to.
The reason for this has to do with a confident and direct man’s ability to really go after what he wants.
Direct men exude confidence Confident men are sexy as hell.